Ever feel like you’re trying to keep a campfire burning from across the world?
That’s reality for many dads — including me. In my recent conversation on the Dad Hat Shenanigans Podcast, we explored how long absences — whether from deployments, work trips, or life’s demands — can actually make you a better father if you approach them with intention. Let’s discuss how to stay connected with your kids while you’re gone.

Here’s what we covered:

• Why you’re irreplaceable, even when life moves on without you
  
• The power of one-on-one moments with each child (and how to create them from miles away)
  
• Using technology to your advantage in keeping relationships strong
  
• The surprising benefits of letting your kids see your work world
  
• My foolproof strategy for never missing a birthday or holiday—no matter where I am in the world
  

Key Takeaways

• Be transparent with your family about your feelings. It builds trust.
  
• Meet your kids where they are. Participate in their interests, routines, and energy levels.
  
• Create shared experiences, even when you’re on opposite sides of the globe.
  
• Embrace your role as a father, regardless of societal expectations.
  

Whether you’re a military dad, a frequent business traveler, or simply looking to deepen your connection with your kids, this episode will challenge you to rethink your approach to fatherhood.

The bottom line: Small, intentional steps can lead to big changes in your family dynamic.

Listen/watch here:

YouTube: Dad Hat Shenanigans Podcast – Long-Distance Fatherhood