The military lifestyle is tough, exciting, surprising, and nerve-racking all at once! Spending holidays apart from loved ones heightens this emotional goulash. It’s a time when we may find ourselves in an emotional slump, making the holiday season seem like a drag. Even so, there are ways we can get creative to lift our holidays “aweigh” while our loved ones are away.  

Only a few of you understand the corny play on words, but I’ll place a hint at the end.  

Let’s get straight to the point! 

1. Before you leave…

Pre-stage gifts and letters before you separate. Do an “all-holiday” celebration. Mix in traditional food, music, themes, etc. Make it a fun and memorable experience!

2. Snail mail sails.

There’s nothing like a handwritten letter with a couple of inside jokes to make you smile. For example, I laughed out loud as I read the introduction to my oldest daughter’s most recent letter to me: “Dear Dad, I hate your stinking guts…” (A reference to The Little Rascals, one of our favorite movies to watch together). I love handwritten letters, but you can also share pictures (drawn or camera photos), favorite things, gag gifts, or whatever you’d like… As long as you don’t violate customs law/policy. Sending and receiving mail can and should be exciting this time of year!

3. Technology wins!

Maximize your use of whatever technology that’s available. Emails, video chat, voice recordings, electronic pictures, and social media are just a few ideas available in even some of the most remote areas. I know the mission at home and abroad eats away at your time. Sometimes, the mismatched schedules are frustrating and tough to align. Just do what you can! Live updates may not work for your specific situation, but the thought does truly count in this regard.

4. Do activities at the same time.

Being in different time zones is challenging, but try to do some things simultaneously. Try praying, looking towards the sky to make a wish, enjoying a meal (or MRE snack), opening a gift, or whatever you’d like! Choose a time and activity and make it special. 

These are just a few ideas to get your creative juices flowing, but use your imagination to make the best of every moment.  The most important thing is to let your loved ones know that you’re thinking about them and doing your best to close the distance to make the holidays special even while you’re away from each other. That’s how you lift the holidays “aweigh,” elevate each other’s spirits, and keep things fun and exciting–no matter how far apart you are!  

Happy Holidays, from my family to yours! Make this year special! ⭐❤️

Hint: The definition of “aweigh” is, “(of an anchor) raised just clear of the sea or riverbed.” -Oxford Languages. The U.S. Navy’s fight song is “Anchors Aweigh.“… The truth is, I wanted to use a play on words that lets you guys know that I know a couple of naval terms! 😅 #SemperFi ⚓

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