“If you can’t feed a hundred people, feed just one.”
“Never worry about numbers. Help one person at a time and always start with the person nearest you.”

Mother Teresa

How can you make a positive impact today?

You don’t need a stage or a spotlight to lead. Sometimes, the biggest difference you’ll make is with the people right in front of you.

Let me share a story that reminded me just how true that is.

This moment turned into more than just changing a tire.

One morning, a young Marine was working nervously on his car right outside my office. As I pulled into the lot, I noticed him shifting tools around, clearly unsure of what he was doing—but trying hard to look confident. He seemed tense, probably because of a newly implemented policy prohibiting car repairs in the lot. Marines were instructed to use the on-base auto shop instead.

When he noticed me looking his way, he got even more anxious. I could feel his panic rise the second I stepped out of my vehicle and said, “Hey, Marine…” He shot to his feet with wide eyes before I could finish. I smiled and chuckled, “You’re okay, man. You need some help?”

Relieved, he explained that he’d blown a tire and didn’t want to be late for work. It became obvious he wasn’t sure how to change a tire—and I was excited for the opportunity to help.

What made it even more memorable? He was from my home state and incredibly proud to be a Marine. As we worked, his energy lifted my entire morning. At one point, he grinned and said, “Man, I’m gonna call my mom to tell her I met an officer from Louisiana… That’s awesome!”

His excitement was genuine. That moment has stuck with me ever since.

Start with the person nearest you.

What started as me offering help turned into a moment where I was inspired. That Marine’s attitude reminded me that leadership isn’t about being in charge—it’s about showing up for people. And that starts with your own home, your own office, your own team.

We can get so focused on growing a following or chasing influence that we forget our greatest obligation is to those already within our reach. Don’t let your purpose become a distraction from the people beside you who will help you fulfill it.

Big impact starts with small actions. One smile. One conversation. One act of kindness.

Simple ways to make a positive impact this week

Here are some ways you can use your platform—no matter how big or small it feels:

  • Teach someone a life skill, like how to change a tire.
  • Help a coworker study for a test or prep for a big project.
  • Visit a friend or family member who could use encouragement.
  • Support a small business or indie author (I know a guy who writes children’s books and provides leadership resources… me. I’m the guy.)
  • Let someone merge in front of you in traffic (yes, that counts!).
  • Donate to someone in need or a cause you believe in.
  • Smile, wave, and genuinely say, “Have a great day.”

Final Thought: People over platform

Whether you lead a classroom, a team, a household, or a company—your impact begins with who’s nearest. Start there. Lead well. And never underestimate the power of one moment.

Who can you encourage today? Drop it in the comments or share this with someone who needs the reminder: your presence matters.

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